People want to make sure no one hugs me, like it's a big deal, but I feel they are taunting me and getting in my head, under my skin, and in my personal space, "Ooh, do you want a hug?"  I don't think hugs feel like sex of the ones I've done, but sometimes it surprises me when someone touches my shoulder, maybe like a massage, which I've traditionally shunned and maybe never got one.